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4.30.2012

The only way to get through it is to get through it.

I've been trying to figure out a simple updo for my thick, layered Asian hair for an outfit I'd like to wear to an engagement party this Friday. Let me tell you, it is not easy. Every time I find a YouTube video of "simple updo," it's girls with beautiful wavy, not too thick, braidable, messy bunnable, hair. I can barely manage to do a messy bun that I like, and after getting a hair cut it's even harder. My "messy" bun always has the shorter layers sticking straight out every which way. Of course these pieces can't just look beautifully messy as they do on other girls. Oh, and another pet peeve about my hair? I'm pretty sure bobby pins are rendered useless in it. Either that or I'm just useless and don't know how to use bobby pins.

So ladies, if you have ANY suggestions for simple updos, please do share. I could definitely use some! So far I've learned how to do a waterfall braid (if you don't know what it is, Google / YouTube it.. they are quite interesting and gorgeous). Another updo that I learned from YouTube is a french braid with the bottom tucked in. This style works well for layered hair. Most of the time I can french braid my hair, but struggle when reaching the bottom and the normal braided area because my layers aren't actually long enough to just straight braid. Tuck the regular braid underneath the french braid, bobby pin, and you're good to go! With the right outfit, the tucked in french braid doesn't look too matronly.. though I can see why one would not favor this hairstyle for fear of aging themselves a decade (or two).

 Photos below are pre hair cut that I got 2 weeks ago. I've had to layer a lot like this lately because the weather has gotten cold again. It's great to be able to layer without looking too bulky. Similar to my post envying those who can mix prints.. I also envy those who can layer so effortlessly. Though I sometimes wonder if blogs give me a warped view of what it actually feels like to wear such clothes (i.e. bloggers wearing layers are either super hot and sweaty or freezing cold because despite the layers, they are not actually warm). One must remember that the fabulous clothing life that bloggers live in photos may not be true in real life. I have definitely been better at photographing outfits that are more day to day and functional as far as weather.
(top: StyleMint |hoodie: American Apparel |jacket: Zara |pants: Citizens for Humanity |shoes: Zara |hat & bag: Alexander Wang)



29 comments:

  1. haha, "bunnable." you crack me up! i'm sure it'll be beautiful, no matter how you do it. and, ah! let me say i've been obsessed with that stylemint top for quite some time. xo.

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  2. Oh man, reading your frustrations with your hair reminds me of my own! I have the same exact problem! Whenever I try putting up my hair all the layers stick oit. Ugh. I'll have to look up that waterfall braid.
    Anyway don't compare yourself to other bloggers. You have an effortless, cool style thats all your own! Love that striped blouse and your shoes. :)

    Trendy Teal

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  3. Love this outfit, the pop of blue works so well! Cute blog.
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  4. I think your hair its beautiful itself....and you too! dont worry.
    kisses
    fran

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  5. Great outfit! Love this look! :)

    Take care,Daniella xox

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  6. love that purse! soo Alexander Wang

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  7. Love love love your handbag! So chic. x

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  8. Great look!

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  9. LOVE your a.wang bag, it's so awesome!

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    joanne.choi

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  10. Love the whole outfit especially the beanie and bag :)

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  11. I love your bag! Thanks for checking out my post on big city farm girl today. I'm so glad I found your blog. I look forward to reading through your posts and I'm not following!

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  12. thanks for the visit!! :)

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  13. Great outfit! Totally my kind of look. You HAVE to get the Moo cards - slick and cute. I have a code to get 15% off your first order 3WZFVB :)
    As for your hair, I feel ya pain. Mine is SO thick and I now refuse to cut layers into it for the same reason yu mentioned - updos/buns/pony's and the dreaded splay of short bits. Also, a bobby pin won't stay in it unless I superglue it there. I found not washing it for a few days [and no brushing] helps to get a style into place. Maybe use a dry shampoo in there as well to give a bit of traction for an updo? Sorry , I can't help any more than that.

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  14. Love your outfit, the bag is amazing!

    xoxo
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  15. Really love that bag it is so pretty!
    Cara x

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  16. Great look! love the bag!

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    Giuseppe

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  17. A really great look - I adore the hat!

    xx

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  18. My dear i have some problems with my hear...i love running but is so bad for my hair...i think you try different options and enjoy the best.

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    Lovely bag.

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  19. Fabulous , perfect bag addiction!
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  20. The downsides to having Asian hair... so unworkable. I feel the same way about mine. Hope you've figured something out xx

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  21. love this look. your so beautifull
    xx
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  22. Good luck with finding a hairstyle. My hair doesn't look like it's Asian, due to me only being half but has the resilience and stubbornness of Asian hair. It doesn't do anything apart from brush and maybe if I'm lucky, when I tie it up it won't break the hairband.

    Your bag is so interesting and amazing, love it!

    Carmen Ri.

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  23. awesome bag!! love this outfit

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  24. I totally relate to the Asian hair conundrum.
    I did discover that Sally's Beauty Supply has the best bobby pins. The first time I ever had a bobby pin stay in my hair! Doesn't solve the problem of not beautifully messy stick out hair. :)
    LOVE YOUR BAG.

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