The only way to get through it is to get through it.

I've been trying to figure out a simple updo for my thick, layered Asian hair for an outfit I'd like to wear to an engagement party this Friday. Let me tell you, it is not easy. Every time I find a YouTube video of "simple updo," it's girls with beautiful wavy, not too thick, braidable, messy bunnable, hair. I can barely manage to do a messy bun that I like, and after getting a hair cut it's even harder. My "messy" bun always has the shorter layers sticking straight out every which way. Of course these pieces can't just look beautifully messy as they do on other girls. Oh, and another pet peeve about my hair? I'm pretty sure bobby pins are rendered useless in it. Either that or I'm just useless and don't know how to use bobby pins.

So ladies, if you have ANY suggestions for simple updos, please do share. I could definitely use some! So far I've learned how to do a waterfall braid (if you don't know what it is, Google / YouTube it.. they are quite interesting and gorgeous). Another updo that I learned from YouTube is a french braid with the bottom tucked in. This style works well for layered hair. Most of the time I can french braid my hair, but struggle when reaching the bottom and the normal braided area because my layers aren't actually long enough to just straight braid. Tuck the regular braid underneath the french braid, bobby pin, and you're good to go! With the right outfit, the tucked in french braid doesn't look too matronly.. though I can see why one would not favor this hairstyle for fear of aging themselves a decade (or two).

 Photos below are pre hair cut that I got 2 weeks ago. I've had to layer a lot like this lately because the weather has gotten cold again. It's great to be able to layer without looking too bulky. Similar to my post envying those who can mix prints.. I also envy those who can layer so effortlessly. Though I sometimes wonder if blogs give me a warped view of what it actually feels like to wear such clothes (i.e. bloggers wearing layers are either super hot and sweaty or freezing cold because despite the layers, they are not actually warm). One must remember that the fabulous clothing life that bloggers live in photos may not be true in real life. I have definitely been better at photographing outfits that are more day to day and functional as far as weather.
(top: StyleMint |hoodie: American Apparel |jacket: Zara |pants: Citizens for Humanity |shoes: Zara |hat & bag: Alexander Wang)

Have you ever done a 99?I think that's a tax form?

Smoothies, polka dots, and leopard print.  I'm always jealous of those bloggers who can mix prints effortlessly and look so damn good doing it.  I'll have to learn that art some time soon..

I did my nails red and orange, for some reason they reminded me of skittles. 
(top: Zara|bottom: BlankNYC |shoes: Rag & Bone |bag: Alexander Wang)

Would you line up around the corner if the iPhone was called "the slippery germ brick"?

My full Easter outfit, I have been loving printed denim lately and these Zara jeans are a great affordable pair that aren't insanely long on me. Can't wait to wear them with some heeled sandals!

That day a middle schooler walked past me while I was taking photos with my boyfriend and he said "nice pants.." My boyfriend and I couldn't tell if he was being sarcastic or not but I thought, who the heck cares, I love them!!

(top: Urban Outfitters |pants & boots: Zara |ring: YSL |bag: Mulberry Alexa |sunglasses: Ray-Ban)

Wouldn’t it be better to find a girl who you really care about to motorboat?

Spring has definitely sprung. I feel like I woke up and suddenly everything sprouted (even my boyfriend's herbs.. he's extremely excited about this fact).

I know I've mentioned this several times but I love having longer days. I feel like I'm able to get more time and get more done versus hiding out under the covers because it's dark, dank, and cold. The weather's been pretty nice in NJ lately as well. The time period to wear shorts/skirts with a top and a light sweater without freezing or sweating is short so I have to take advantage of it this year. However the last couple of weeks has been about comfort and laziness and I've loved every second of it. I'll try to up my game this weekend...

(tee: StyleMint |jeans: Citizens of Humanity |shoes: Rag & Bone |bag: Alexander Wang |sunglasses: Karen Walker)

You're like aging ballerina, child chess prodigy, old magician crazy.

It was like a wind tunnel taking photo on the top floor of a parking garage. Made for some messy hair in my photos.

I adore the horse print on this Zara blouse with a bit of stud detailing on the shoulder and the end of the sleeves.

(top: Zara |jeans: Madewell |shoes: Rag & Bone Harrow |bag: Mulberry Alexa)

I do not light up. What you're seeing is probbably radiation from the summer I collected uranium tubes by the railroad tracks.

Winter seems to be officially over, besides the colder nights (which aren't that cold) - the temperature has been from mid to upper 60s. Absolutely beautiful weather.

Here are some some remaining photos from cooler days. I've decided if I had a uniform, it would be a t-shirt, jeans, and ankle boots (ankle boots can be switched out for some other form of footwear but you get what I mean). Depending on the weather, I also like to add a good coat into the mix.

(top: T by Alexander Wang |bottoms: Citizens of Humanity |shoes: Rag & Bone |coat: Zara |bag: Proenza Schouler PS1)

You know, having only one cute outfit takes hours off getting dressed.

I totally forgot to do a post on this..

Happy 2 year and 1 week Anniversary of myblissisthisway!!

You guys have been the absolute best and as always, I wouldn't be here without you!

So, I'm pretty sure I have an obsession with leather sleeves. I'm so glad they brought this coat back on Zara.. I was stalking Ebay to see if I could get it for a reasonable price. Finally it came back and of course I got it. Can't wait for more spring like weather to wear it with shorts, skirts, and bare legs!

(jacket: Zara |jeans: Citizens of Humanity |shoes: Rag & Bone Newbury |bag: Alexander Wang Donna)

Do they only serve breakfast at this McDonald's?

Happy belated birthday to my friend Ainhoa (pronounced I-Know-Uh, she's the one who found me the great deal on the pants in the last post). It was her birthday this past weekend and we celebrated by dressing up, eating sushi, and going out to the bar. Loved the shoes that she wore that night (I helped her find them!! If you know her, this is a very big deal..) - they are by Shoemint and style is called the Jolly. She looked adorable in her red and white sheer polka dot blouse. I wanted to put ears on her and call her Minnie.

I ended up wearing a 90s looking turtleneck, black, sleeveless body con dress that I got from American Apparel. I posted the cropped version over the summer which you'll most likely be seeing on my Ebay soon because frankly, I love the dress version a whole lot more. I added a tiny bit of color to my all black outfit with Tarte Lip Stain in Amused which is a nice bright pink lip stain that doesn't dry your lips out.. one of my favorite make up products ever (this is saying a lot because I don't usually wear makeup).

(dress: American Apparel |shoes: Topshop)

You're coming off all observant and honest, you know; antisocial

So I just joined this new thing called Twitter? Just kidding (about it being a new thing) but I have now conformed and have decided Twitter is probably something I should learn more about so I don't keep bothering my friend with questions like "How do you read that?" (in response to when she sends me a series of Twitter messages that are supposed to be funny) or "What does 'pound' ___ mean?" (or in Twitter land #________ which written out I have learned is "hash tag"). Follow me on Twitter @MBITW (or via the button on the right) and see how I learn to navigate through this new social tool (new to me anyway).

So you guys should be proud of me, I let my boyfriend photograph me on the streets of NYC. Mind you that day was HORRIBLE because it was the Chinese New Year's parade and we managed to literally get stuck on a street in Chinatown that was insanely packed to the point that no one could move causing me to be stuck on that street for about an hour all pouty faced as my boyfriend attempted to console me (mind you before that it took us about an hour and a half to park and we hadn't eaten yet so I was in a foul mood). He was thoroughly impressed that I was able to walk comfortably the whole time in the Rag & Bone boots.

We managed to also catch the trade show that was going on that weekend in the Javits Center. My boyfriend's friends from college are selling some belts so one was in town and showcasing them at the show. It was definitely an interesting thing to experience, I've never heard much about trade shows so it was cool to walk around and check out some of the stuff they had.

(sweater: by Corpus |pants: BlankNYC |shoes: Rag & Bone |bag & hat: Alexander Wang |jacket: Zara |scarf: boutique in Hong Kong)

Just hit 750 followers, thanks everyone for all your continued support!!

Anyway, being in a relationship can't possibly hinge on physical intimacy. 'Cause that would mean our parents are still doing it.

Happy belated Valentine's day, hope everyone had a good one! My boyfriend attempted to be sweet and send flowers to me at work but they never showed up. It explained why a couple of my coworkers kept asking me where my flowers were (he had asked one of them what the address of my work was), to which I replied, he didn't send me any. But it was nice to find out later that he had technically tried to order me flowers and cooked me a delicious dinner, where I gorged myself silly.

I've managed to incorporate some color into my wardrobe! This is always an exciting thing for me! Colored pants are an easy way to incorporate color into a wardrobe for those who want to and don't know where to start. If you're on the more adventurous side, you can create a color block outfit, otherwise just throw on a neutral colored top over your colored pants and you're good to go.

(top: Current/Elliot |bottom: BlankNYC |jacket: Zara |shoes: The Row x Toms |clutch: Alexander Wang Fumo |nail polish: OPI Fresh Frog of Bel-Air)

Sometimes your shallowness is so thorough, it's almost like depth.

I purchased this Zara coat towards the beginning of winter. It is more like a large sweater and I like how easy it is to throw on over my chunky sweaters. Even layered with other clothing, I can still move my arms, which always a plus. My favorite part of the coat is the fur detailing on the collar. It's great for when it gets cold, I just button up and my neck is warm and cozy.

(top: T by Alexander Wang |jeans: Current/Elliott |coat: Zara |bag: Pendleton |shoes: Ash Trash)

Can you teach me how to twirl my hair and stare vacantly?

Happy Belated Groundhog's day! A holiday I otherwise would have forgotten had the radio not reminded me yesterday morning. Lo and behold, it's been predicted that spring is coming, which isn't too surprising. Goal for this spring is to utilize all the ankle boots I've collected over the fall/winter into outfits. I have a tendency to convert to sandals the second it gets warm because my toes feel weird covered.

This sweater was a random purchase online at Urban Outfitters because I wanted to get over $50 in my cart to get free shipping.. so I figured that the sweater probably wouldn't work out and I'd just return it to the store. However.. rather than keep the other item I had wanted, I ended up keeping the sweater and absolutely loving it. It's great for winter (and I don't have many proper clothes for winter), it's soft, and it's super comfortable/cozy. I adore the little flecks of color throughout the sweater that aren't overwhelming but give it an interesting look. You'll definitely be seeing it often on my blog. This sweater falls in the stylish and comfortable category of my wardrobe (like my Topshop jacket). Those items are far and few between so keep them when you find them!

(sweater: ByCorpus, purchase here |jeans: Madewell |shoes: Zara |bag: Alexander Wang)

I'm not like you! I don't just jump in the potato sack, with the first potato that I meet with diabetes!

January has officially ended. It's crazy to think that just 4 weeks ago.. we started the new year. This month has definitely zipped by. Today's temperatures are supposed to get up to 60 degrees! Mother nature, what are you doing?! Not that I don't appreciate the mild temperatures, so keep it up and I'll stop complaining..

These photos are from the beginning of January. I decided to show off my talents to my boyfriend's roommates one day.. that talent was making snowflakes out of spare magazines. Being that I stay there every weekend, it's my contribution to their house (I would be more prone to calling it a frat house - four boys, four smelly, dirty boys). I'm sure they would appreciate food much more. During the New Year's weekend, his roommates' friends came over and I was just walking into the house. One girl started telling me how well I decorated the house and couldn't stop raving about it. I had to stop and think about what other things I did besides these snowflakes.. which is nothing.. so I guess the snowflakes left a big impression on her.

My new favorite Zara jeans for going out. Love how versatile they are even though they are printed. They go great with any basic top.. throw on some ankle boots and I'm ready to go out. I've already worn them multiple times out and they've been a big hit among friends.. though my friends have a tendency to meow, growl, or rawr while commenting on the jeans.

(top: American Apparel |bottom & boots: Zara)